Having been beaten by society for 40 years, here are the truths about social interactions:

1. People who know how to flirt never rely on words.
2. You must get married, and have two children.
3. Besides earning money, researching everything else is actually wrong.
4. Very serious people can't make big fortunes.
5. Don't trust anyone; all relationships are exchanges of interests. If you have no value, even your closest people will despise you.
6. Smart people stay low-key in front of relatives, not show off.
7. Remember, making money is your lifelong affair. Otherwise, one day, you'll pay for your youth and ignorance.
8. Don't say "Have a safe trip" when seeing off friends at the airport.
9. Call an auntie "Aunt," call a sister "Sister," and call a beautiful woman "Miss."
10. Sometimes, you need to be more realistic and fake, because without that, it's hard to survive.
11. The most frightening thing in a family is not poverty, but having someone who constantly causes internal strife, conflicts, and arguments.
12. If your wife is unhappy, the family may not be doing well.
13. At the glasses store, there are few visitors. Why doesn't it close? Because its profit margin is the highest among all industries.
14. Three questions not to ask in conversation: a man's income, a woman's age, and a child's grades.
15. When someone toasts you, hold your cup lower than theirs.
16. When visiting someone else's house, arrive late, not early.
17. If a benefactor helps you, be sure to hold on tight.
18. If you're not doing well, don't criticize others.
19. For work you dislike, either shut up or quit.
20. No matter how sincere you are, if someone doubts you, you are a lie.
21. No matter how innocent you seem, if you meet complicated people, you are scheming.
22. No matter how professional you are, if you meet someone who doesn't understand, you are clueless.
23. 99% of problems can be solved with silver, the remaining 1% with gold.
24. Better to marry someone who works as a beggar than a lazy person.
25. When others ask where you live, they are really asking if you have money.
26. In a world full of lies, telling the truth is a crime.
27. "Stay for dinner" actually means they are trying to send you away.
28. When planning, find someone with ample resources; when doing, find someone in a tight spot.
29. Don't divorce; even if there's no love, muddle through. Divorce divides half the assets, and remarriage just raises the bride price. This kind of situation only leads to failure.
30. Tell your children not to trust video calls. With AI technology, strangers can be easily edited into your parents.
31. Men generally won't delete or block the opposite sex when angry, but women will.
32. Be cautious when remarrying someone with a son; the same applies to men and women.
33. You can choose not to harm people, but you must have thorns on you—not to hurt others, but to protect yourself.
34. The best psychologist in the world is a wealthy person themselves.
35. Keep phone numbers between relatives, but don't trust them; it's best to stay "connected without actual contact."
36. Men who can't find wives are everywhere, and wives bullied by men are everywhere too—they all share one thing in common: they can't make money.
37. Good looks don't guarantee a good marriage, but stable and decent jobs usually lead to a good marriage.
38. Others' social circles are carefully curated, so be skeptical of what you see.
39. The strong help each other, the weak step on each other. So, the strong stay strong, and the weak stay weak.
40. Reading and making money follow two different logics.
41. Mixing with the poor is ineffective or low-efficiency socializing. It’s hard to hear, but it’s the truth.
42. Society is a winner-takes-all game; losers end up with nothing. Society always judges heroes by success or failure.
43. Be "ruthless"—be ruthless to others, and even more ruthless to yourself. As long as your heart is tough enough, others will collapse night after night.
44. Learn to speak human language to humans and ghost language to ghosts. What once seemed fake is now "ability."
45. A good heart will never beat a good mouth. Doing is less impressive than speaking, and speaking is less impressive than pretending.
46. Have some savings in your pocket—even just 30,000 to 50,000 yuan, is a clear mind.
47. Why do many women wear low-cut clothes but often cover themselves with their hands? Because they are afraid that the poor will see, and the rich won't.
48. Very profitable businesses, avoid partnering with people around you, especially friends and relatives.
49. In a family, if the older brother is successful, he can help his younger brother; but if the younger is successful, he usually won't help the older.
50. When others praise you for being good at eating fish, they are actually saying you are good at picking faults.
51. No matter how old you are, if you trust people too easily, you have a fatal flaw.
52. When others fall on hard times, you help them with all your might; when you fall, they laugh with all their might.
53. Don't overestimate your importance in others' hearts; in fact, people only think of you when they need help.
54. The more you fear, the more people will bully you; if you're not afraid of anything, no one dares to bully you.
55. A social law: those who are ten times closer to you when you are safe will leave ten times faster when you're in trouble.
56. Don't think that only people with a conscience have it.
57. Relying on mountains will cause them to collapse; relying on people will cause them to run away; relying on yourself is the only way to escape.
58. If you lack strength, speak less; if you have enough strength, there's no need to speak.
59. Listen less to successful people’s nonsense, more to the experiences of failures.
60. Don't expect others to help you in your time of need; if no one helps you, just be grateful that no one has added insult to injury.