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If a man has the ability to solve problems, he won't just comfort others. Even if he can comfort now, it will be difficult to sustain after marriage. Because the ability to solve problems is developed through hardship. Anyone who has endured great suffering will find it hard to empathize with your small struggles. Essentially, he internally believes: "This isn't a big deal." So even if he tries to comfort you, it's not from the heart, and he doesn't truly know how to comfort people.

After my cousin got accepted into graduate school, she broke up with her boyfriend who had been supporting her through college. She said, "I got into graduate school, and I'll have more opportunities and resources in the future. You're just a high school graduate; what prospects do you have? Our gap will only get bigger. The money you helped me with before, I will slowly pay you back." The boy was very disappointed but said nothing. Before they parted, the boy took out a card and handed it to the girl.

If you want to succeed in doing things, don't ask just anyone casually! Think it through, then go ahead and do it! Asking around will only make you more conflicted. Unknowingly, your enthusiasm will be drained. Gradually, you'll no longer want to do it. Those who achieve great things do not consult the masses; those who plan big matters keep it in their hearts!

You actually believe that a man who makes money is easily fooled?

If you want good luck, remember one ironclad rule: Say what’s good where you are, talk about the house being good where you live, praise your work when you’re doing it, and speak well of the people you’re with. Compliment your clothes when you wear them, praise the taste of your food, when the weather is sunny, say the sunshine is warm; when it rains, compliment the fresh air. Even if you drink the same water every day, say it’s sweet. People themselves are an energy field.

Shangshu Cat, the Curious Behavior of Cats

I don't know if you still remember the soul-searching question that was very popular online a few years ago:
I give you one piece of candy, someone else gives you two, and you think they are better than me?
But you don't know, they have ten candies, and I only have one.
In the past, almost everyone would stand with the person who only had one candy,
We would think he gave you everything,
That is true sincerity from the heart,
And the most precious genuine feeling.

My cousin's born in 1997. At the beginning of the month, she went on a blind date and met someone who drives a Mercedes-Benz. He’s quite handsome, but a bit short. They spent a few days together, and my cousin took a lot of selfies in his car and even posted them on Moments. His car is really cool, and it gets a lot of looks when driving down the street. Later, my cousin felt that the guy was too short and didn’t take the initiative, so nothing happened. But then things started to go wrong. My cousin asked others to introduce her to someone:

Three tricks to judge if someone is reliable or not
First trick:
After a date ends and you start the car, it shows an error, and the transmission has a problem.
You say you need to call the 4S shop for assistance, which might take an hour or two.
At this moment, the other person stays for a while and then says they have something else to do, and leaves by taxi.
Anyone who runs away at the first sign of trouble with you is generally not worth considering.

My cousin is from 1997.
At the beginning of the month, she went on a blind date and met someone who drives a Mercedes. He’s quite handsome, but a bit short.
They spent a few days together,
because my cousin took a lot of selfies in his car and even posted them on Moments.
His car is really cool, and it gets a lot of double-taps when driving down the street.
Later, my cousin felt that the guy was too short and not proactive,
so it didn’t work out.
But then things started to get weird.
My cousin told others that her ideal match must:
also drive a Mercedes, must be handsome, but

People skilled at making money

Going back to my hometown to visit my parents, neighbor Uncle Quan asked me: "How much can you earn in a month?" I knew his son wasn't doing very well, so I hesitated and made myself sound very miserable. I said: "Just three to four thousand yuan." Uncle immediately smiled, then continued to ask: "So is it really three thousand or four thousand?" I said: "It's commission-based, sometimes over four thousand, sometimes less than three thousand, and I often work overtime, sometimes even can't get paid on time."

My boyfriend's annual salary is 300,000 yuan.
When I asked for 280,000 yuan as a wedding gift,
he readily agreed.
The wedding house is in my name,
and he didn't hesitate at all.
But when I suggested that I manage the bank card,
he suddenly changed his mind,
saying we're not compatible and want to break up.
Hearing the words "break up,"
I was stunned.
He has contributed so much to our future,
why did he choose to withdraw at the last moment?

Visiting my parents back in my hometown,
Neighbor Uncle Quan asked me:
How much do you make in a month?
I know his son isn’t doing very well,
So I hesitated and made myself sound very miserable.
I said: About three to four thousand yuan.
Uncle immediately smiled,
Then continued to ask: So is it really three thousand or four thousand?
I said: It’s commission-based, sometimes over four thousand,
Sometimes less than three thousand, and I often work overtime,
Sometimes I don’t even get paid on time.
Hearing this, Uncle’s smile grew even brighter,
His voice even louder,
An

Is having a million in savings really that impressive? Yizhong Tian once said: When you hold 1 million in savings, a 300,000 car, and own a 130-square-meter home without a mortgage, your life is actually **not fundamentally different** from that of the world's top billionaires.
Is there a big shot who has reached this level to share their experience?

A “Bride Price Saint” emerged in the village😂
At the engagement, the bride's family received 200,000 yuan in bride price,
He, deeply inspired by the campaign to “regulate high bride prices,”
Went straight to the government to sue the bride's family!
The bride price was successfully refunded,
And the fiancée packed her bags and went to work in another city,
The engagement was directly canceled.
He, confused, ran to the government:
“I only said I wanted the bride price back, I didn’t say I wanted to cancel the marriage!
We are just responding to the national call and policy!”

The greatest sorrow for a girl is becoming a technician. When her daily commission exceeds 1,000 yuan, she can no longer take on ordinary jobs outside

Is having a savings of one million really that impressive?
Yi Zhongtian once said:
When you hold 1 million in savings,
a 300,000 car,
and a 1,300-square-foot mortgage-free home,
your life
actually has no essential difference
from the daily life of top-tier global billionaires.
Is there a big shot who has reached this level to share their experience?

The ultimate sense of satisfaction is to focus entirely on oneself, treating oneself like a work of art. This is also the activity with the highest return on investment. Such a person will definitely not experience internal conflict because they hardly pay attention to anyone else. From their skin to their physique, from their diet to their brain, they are constantly refining and sculpting themselves. They don't need to form relationships with anyone, nor do they need anyone's approval.